Sometimes all they want from us is to just listen to them with an open heart & mind, pay attention to them, let them vent out, be their shoulder to cry on. They do not expect any solutions or reply from us, they just want to speak their heart out without any expectations of judgment from us. We think that they are expecting a reply from us, but on contrary they don’t want any solution, but just an ear to listen.
Personally, being a good listener helps us broaden our horizon by getting exposed to other’s ideas, opinions and perspectives. We can learn so much by just being a good listener. Socially, it fosters our relationships with others. People start relying on us. There can be nothing better than being an exceptional listener to somebody. Very often, when someone shares his/her problem with us, we ‘reply’ them telling issues we are dealing with in our life. But does that reduce their pain or makes them feel any better? No! So here’s what you should do rather:
Empathize with them, put yourself in their shoes. If you first seek to understand, you will find yourself being better understood. Don’t be afraid of long silences. Human communication involves much more than words.
Hope you liked this short & honest blog, do share your feedback! 🙂
Much Love!
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Loved this article, by the way!
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Thank you Rishika! 🙂
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I agree with you and Harsh. Listening and observing is an art in itself.
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Yes, which we all should have to some extent! 🙂
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I am feeling so happy my heart is gold 😍
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Hahah nice, why? ☺️
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It is a wonderful thought.. To be a good listener is I guess most difficult job now a days..
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I completely agree, people are so impatient to just listen!
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So many don’t listen to hear, they listen to respond. Im slowly learning to listen to hear. I am striving to be the person who can be that ear for them to be heard.
Such a great post!
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I am so glad to read this 🙂 More power to you 🙂
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Great article,Mahima !Thanks !Certainly listening to someone attentively and with full convergence is the first & primary step towards Empathizing with that someone!Yes, its a kind of fullfledged conversation with the subject without uttering a single word! The message is delievered that there is someone close to you always with you& for you.
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I am feeling so glad reading your feedback ☺️
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Very happy that you liked my response 🙏
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Nice: Thanks for sharing
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My pleasure 😊
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I agree. There aren’t many who actually listens.
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Agreed.
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